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2015 Trip to Japan : Feels

A very uneventful trip. I hardly did anything due to the lack of time. I also learned and faced a lot of things on this trip. This is a rant.

A few things I learned traveling Japan with my parents :

1. They don’t like Japan.
2. They hate ANA. (All Nippon airways)
3. They really prefer chinese food.

It had been hard. You see, I love Japan. So much that I really like to live there sometime. And it’s really hard hearing the people you love kept on criticising the country / culture you love. I can’t help my feel irritated and angry. Why can’t they understand? Why do they keep on saying all these things?? So yea, I was in a sour mood most of the time and I really tried to keep them underwraps but unfortunately, it shows.

I know things about Japan. I learn about their culture. They don’t speak on trains / MRT especially in the morning, unlike Singapore. So I shared this with my parents. They can talk, but try to do it softly because there had been cases where foreigners were told by by elderly Japanese for talking out loud in trains. They complained that I am cramping their styles. They said I care too much about them. That they came here to have fun and not to do all these. That they also talked on train.

Take note that most of the talking occurs at night when we are talking the train back around 9 ~ 10pm plus. It’s also when most of them are heading home after some drinking.

My mood soured. I can’t help it! And then my dad had to sit on my beautiful and only 1 huge size purple luggage and cracked it.

I used Airbnb and got us an apartment that cost $600+ for 4 nights that houses all 3 of us. We couldn’t take all the hair on the floor (our fault) and clean up every night. It was a small apartment so cleaning took less then 15mins. On the last day, they complained about why they need to clean when they don’t have to do that in a hotel.

We clean because we are the ones who can’t take all the loose hair laying around. Or the sticky floor. Besides, I am the one cleaning the entire 4 nights. First vacuum, then magic mop. All of which are in the apartment. I really don’t understand why they are complaining about it when I am the one cleaning. We really had a very comfortable time staying in that apartment. When I received a comment from Ken, the one renting the apartment to us, that thanked us for using his apartment beautifully, I feel so proud! It was when I read this comment that I know all that I’ve done was correct.

Then they complain about the food being expensive. This I can’t help. All the cheap food like ¥300 soba, they don’t eat. They don’t eat any Japan noodles at all. Most of the cheap Japan food they can’t eat. I can’t help it if it’s expensive. It really sucks when you brought them to Yokohama Chinatown and had a chinese meal and they said it’s the best meal they had since they arrived. They really cannot survive outside Singapore.

About how ANA is being a stick in the mud. I told them beforehand, before we fly and also when we are packing up on the last day. ANA allows 2 pieces of luggages each, each must weight max 23kg. When we are packing up on the last day and seeing my parents stuff a load of stuff into their huge luggage, I told them that ANA only allows 23kg per pc.

” It’s fine! Most planes allow us to merge! SIA also allow! ”
” It’s not SIA. Later they don’t allow, you have to repack everything in the airport. ”
” It’s okay one! No problem. ”

And they slammed the luggage shut. I let them be. It’s the 4th day, I learned the lesson of leaving them be. They had another hand-held luggage but I guessed they filled it up with food and don’t want it to be crushed.
And at check-in, their luggage overweigh by 6kg being at 29kg. They were told to either remove the weight or pay ¥3000. Oh, they complained very very loudly. We have to go to a side to repack.

” WAH LOU. Everyone allow us to merge, they super 死板 (stick-in-the-mud). WORST PLANE EVER. I AM NOT SITING THIS AGAIN. ”

They kept this on the entire time as they repack.

” I told you right? 23kg per luggage. ”
” No la! Is that they too 死板 (stick-in-the-mud) liao la! Everyone allow one! ”

Everyone is who? Most planes allows but it does not means that this plane allows it. There’s no logic to this argument. And then they repacked.

” Should be okay. Don’t tell me 1kg also cannot! ”

They were still overweight by 1 kg.

” WAH LOU. 1KG ALSO CANNOT. ”

They told you 23kg. Why, oh why do you keep on wanting to bend the rules?! I don’t understand!

Finally when everything is done and we finally checked in, they kept on complaining how stick-in-the-mud this airplane was. I was angered from all the negativity and also said some negative things.

MUM : ” I’ll never ride this plane again! I will never come to Japan again! ”
Me : ” Okay. I’ll still go. Next time your boss tells you to come to Japan you tell him you don’t want to come cause you hate Japan lor. ”
(I know, I am in the wrong. But it hurts cause I love Japan and you got to admit all these comments were uncalled for cause they were in the wrong it the first place. Only now after calming down then did I realised that they might be saying that in the heat of the moment as well.)
MUM : ” I will never travel with you again. ”
Me : ” Then DON’T. Me either. ”
DAD : ” HUH NA!! ” (In a super loud voice – you know he’s pissed, he already was from the luggage thing.)

That scared me a little cause a pissed dad is scary. So I try to be nice to them on the surface but I’m really boiling inside. Why do I get scolded? WHY? THIS SUCKS. WORST TRIP EVER. I then made up my mind about not ever traveling with them again to Japan. But the attraction is too much so I then changed my mind to where I stand now. I’ll travel, but I will leave them be. I’ll emotionally detach myself the next time.

Angry. I am angry. I am angry whenever I heard their complains.

I don’t want the people in Japan to look at my parents with the same disgust like we do when we look at all the (mostly china) tourists when they starts to speak loudly or behave rudely. (I know that’s how they do it in china but please, Singapore is not it.)

It’s the same thing! They don’t take the time to learn our culture, what we do and not do, and simply does things they way they always do in China. And now my parents are saying they want to do the same thing in Japan!

Maybe I am cramping their style too much, I’m sorry. But I did it cause I don’t want us to be looked down upon! Do as the romans does in Rome. Maybe my parents are too old for this. Maybe I shouldn’t bother them with all these.

Although we are really not thinking about traveling with each other for some time soon, especially to Japan, I learned some things. I am going to let them be. I’ll pay attention to myself, do my part the way I want and just let them do what they want. This way, everyone is happy. If they get scolded, they’ll learn. But not from me. Not anymore. I need to find a balance for everyone to be happy on a trip. I’m not doing anything extra anymore.

Sorry for this rant, I need this. The real Day 01 post will come soon but without all these feels.

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Trip to Japan : Day 1

So after my review on the the ANA Planes, it's time to get started on what follows after.

Trip to Japan : The beginning

It begins on a Monday, in my house. I have to say, I was very successful in curbing my excitement. I woke up, cleaned up and immediately dive into the internet, slurping up my breakfast as I do so.

After the initial 3 hours of watching mindless Japan variety shows, my friends started to get excited through Line.

" STOP IT. If I get excited now, I will most likely unable to last till midnight!! "

That earned some laughter. But it got me to climbed up from my chair and started to check if I did get everything I need into my luggage. After which I checked my mail which says ANA had auto-checked me in. So all I need to do now is to endure the few hours till midnight.

It gets easier as time goes by. I showered. Rechecked my luggage. Eat. Watch TV. Eat. Rechecked my luggage. Yes, it's like groundhog day within a few hours.

But then KK arrived at my doorstep with her luggage. I ninja jumped. IT'S FINALLY HERE. THE TIME HAS COME. (Which doesn't sound good if you happen to be in a horror / thriller film.)

We groundhog day again to checked our luggage together before settling in to watch 2 variety shows before my dad arrives at the doorstep to whisked us off to the airport. Can't help but sing and be sarcastic on the way over because I am bouncing with excitement. Met up with BP in the airport. Everything then flew by. We quickly got into the line to check our luggage in and received our air tickets in about less then 15 minutes (thanks to the auto-check in ANA did). We then got our white cards to fill in on the plane and we are set!

We slide through the customs in a breeze with the machines and our thumbprints, waved last goodbye to my parents and started to walk around. I have to say, Changi Airport is really the best. It's 11pm and everything is open (trust me, not every airport have opening hours as long as Changi Airport).

Since most of us had our dinner early, we decided to something to eat (yes, again). And then started to arranged our stuff and took out all documents needed. Stuff like passport and air tickets.

BP & KK, no I'm not in this. Who else do you think is taking the picture?
Most of us have color coded items by coincidence so it's easy to know who's whose. Then the announcement started and we started moving. The funny thing is, even though we are in Singapore, the announcement is entirely in Japanese. Good thing we understand Japanese but what about the others who don't? Huge gap of logic there to fix it up people.

The rest is mostly in this post.

After we arrived in the Narita (NARITA!!), we just followed the crowd through a long hallway with random turns here and there and boom, reached the customs with a snake-like queue. Well, let's jump in! We easily spend 1 – 2 hours in that queue and luckily for us, we have everything ready with the white card filled in.

Here's how the customs in Japan goes :
-There's a person at the end of the queue to check if you have all of your items so get them all ready.
(Passport, White Card (Disembarkation/Embarkation Card), Visa if needed, your hand-held luggage)
-There's a few counters in which the person will tell you which is that you are to go to.
– Then you join this tiny queue of about 3 and once it's your turn, hand your passport, filled white card over to the person inside the counter.
– He / She will then ask you to look (abit to the left where the TV screen is) at the camera on top where it proceeds to take your mug shot.
– He will then staple and stamp somethings in your passport and you're ready to go!

I got through first, then KK and lastly BP. We then proceed to get our luggage and proceed to exit. At the exit, there will be another queue where police/customs officers will be checking your white card, passport and in some cases, your luggage as well (especially for people who came alone to Japan carrying a huge luggage in which they will unpack everything).

I went into a little trouble as I forgot to write down the name of my hotel but once I told him where, he jolt it down and let me go, despite the huge luggage. I figured he knows that I'm in a pack of 3 with my friends instead of traveling alone. Or that I seemed completely harmless. So out we go and all the way down to B2 to get our Suica + NEX' combo card.

BP has a Suica so she is only getting the NEX tickets which proved to be a wrong choice. You see, the combo cost ¥3500 in which the NEX ticket itself cost ¥3500. (This combo will be discontinued from April 1st which we are very lucky since we arrive at 25th March.) So if you get the combo, there's another ¥1500 worth of value inside the Suica which makes it more worthwhile.

Here's the suica card + all of our NEX tickets. The story : This picture is taken outside a toilet. Charming.
So since we have some time before the train departs, we went to Lawson to try to get the 7-fast pass as well as the One Piece show tickets (all within USJ). Here's when we reached into another wall of.. Japanese.

I asked the station staff if they know where Lawson is in English and she didn't understand. So I simply used the word "Lawson?". No can do. I tried about 3 times before my friend took over. " Lawson はどこですか? " "AH! Lawson! "

What the heck? Ain't it Lawson as well? Where exactly is the difference? There's no difference whatsoever in the pronunciation!

Moving on from the hiccup, we went to Lawson (convenience store, kinda like 7-11) and got some drinks, some onigiri before attacking the ticket-buying machine. It was a tough battle and we had to call for help from the staff to find out that we are better at it then her. Turns out the problem is that we are looking for something that is already sold out. So we got the 4 fast pass for USJ and leave it at that.

After the 6 hours+ flight, we are feeling a little peckish so we went into the foodcourt (which turns out to be opposite of Lawson) and got some Soba. BP took a non-alcoholic beer cause of our pressuring. " Beer? Now? First thing in the morning? " "Fine, I'll get the non-alcoholic one then. ". There's not much difference in taste from the real deal though.

Then we took a walk outside.


Our plane! I think….


Yes, we are lugging our luggage everywhere. KK's the blue one, mine's the triangle patterned one.


Look at the hair, it's really windy out there. And it's cold cold wind. Hence the jacket struggling.

NEX – Time to board!

We went back down to basement 2.


The subway.


Here's the train info.


Matching to make sure we won't end up in who-know-where. And look! Assigned seats! No jostling needed.


And it pulls nicely into the station.


Noticed the 'do not enter' yellow tape at the entry? Because the cleaning crew's inside, making it nice and comfy for you.

Here's another thing, I have no idea why but I always get all the tourists while I'm waiting for the trains regardless of my huge luggage. Always. They would come up and ask in Japanese if the trains is going OOO and I would answer that it is. In which they would then turn back to their group and repeat my answer in languages I would perfectly understand. Not poking that balloon though. It's nice to see people take the time to learn Japanese instead of expecting people to understand them. And why spoil their experience, right?

Once the cleaning crew is done with the train, they would step out and line in front. And when everybody is ready, they would then bow before leaving. That's when you can enter and take your seats. In terms of non-assigned seats, it's best to line up in front to get the seats you want, otherwise, you won't even be left with any or random seats here and there.

These kind of airport trains, they always have a space (the white part before the windows till the door) for you to place your luggage. There's not much space however, so if you missed out, you would have to squeeze in your seats with your luggage. But the seats are wide enough I believe.


Here's how it looks like inside. The seats are also turnable so you can turn them around to face each other.


Like this! BP took this picture as we turn and face her. Me and KK.

It was took when the train is already moving for a while. All of us were so tired due to the plane's sucky seats as you can see from KK's face. Though I am reading my mag for now, we all took a nice nap on the train. You cannot believe how comfy the seats were! It really recharged us for the rest of the day.

There's a board with all the information.


Close up, if anyone's interested. We're delayed though.


And it does comes in different languages.


Drinks from Lawson with my ticket. Notice the hole? A conductor will stop by to ask for it so don't misplace it.
The conductor will bow before leaving the compartment and also after entering as well.
This reminds me, please hold on to your tickets as it's costly to have to buy another one if you lost yours. The thing to note is that, after inserting your ticket into the machine to enter the subway, it will most likely spit it out on the other side so do remember to get it back as the conductor will come during the train ride to punch a hole in it and you would need it to get out as well. (Conductor only on Shinkansen Trains, not normal subway.)

The view outside. All Japanese…
All of us slept most of the way so there's not much to talk about. We got off at Shinjuku Station, which is huge by the way and started to try to figure out how to head to our hotel.

Figuring our way… Right outside the Shinjuku station.
The hotel we are staying at is Hotel Washington Shinjuku. I would recommend to get another hotel if possible. Because the station and the hotel is really far and the underpass is a little complex to figure out. Plus the route that goes to our hotel close at… 9 ~ 10pm I think. But they gave us a non-smoking room even if we forgot to indicate it when we booked it online. Most likely cause I was making a fuss… Sorry.

We finally got here with a lot of help from BP's friend who's waiting for her there as they are meeting up for dinner sans the rest of us. We checked in and then proceed to see what our room looks like.


Entry Way…


KK and I pushed our beds together because we are scaredy cats. And sorry for the blurriness.. I think I only took 1 shot..

The funny thing is, once we step into the room, even BP's friend exclaimed at how small it is even to him being a Japanese. It's really not bigger on the inside. The space/floor you see in the picture from the bed to the edge of the photo is exactly the space we have, I just didn't take the wall in together.

There's a tiny space for you to place your luggage (In front of the last bed in the last picture).


Toilet… Even smaller..


Found a better quality picture! KK, sitting on my bed.

BP left with her friend for dinner so we, KK and me, took the time to slowly empty our luggage and rest before heading to explore Shinjuku. We didn't do much anyway but we did tick off Yoshinoya from our list of ' Fast Food to try in japan '. It's totally different from what we have here. It's all counter seats and a cup of tea is served right after you seat down. After ordering, the food will arrive in just a short while and the taste is so much better. You also pay after you finished your meal. Sometimes, you have to call the waiter over to inform them that you're leaving. So much trust.

After that, we took a walk around and it finally hit us that we are in JAPAN!!

Food In Japan :


Sorry for the empty cup but I took it after I drunk it all. It's Strawberry juice and it's delicious! A tad expensive for it's size though.


KK ordered flower tea (that's not a lychee inside!) but it taste fruity and slightly sour, very nice.

Shopping malls :

A typical mall… only covered in Japanese.

If you set a budget daily for your trip in Japan, do spend it. This is our 1st day and due to us not really daring to spend the day's budget, we missed out a lot of things that we wanted but can never find again.

That's it for part 1!